The Steps to Achieve your ultimate dream: Wisdom from my Mentor Darren Hardy!

Hi everyone,

right now I am hanging out at my favorite place. Starbucks on Ellice in Winnipeg.

Lately I have been thinking about the CORE factors that successful people have that none successful people have`nt or dear not to have.

First! What is your BHAG? My Big Adatious Hairy Goal is to help a 1000 people all over the world to reach their goals and dreams.

There I shared it. Is it Big? Yes. Is it something that is possible? Maybe some would say most would say that is too much. I would say It is possible and I will do it!!!!!

Let me tell you about the X-Factor people are looking for the "easier way to become successful".

The X-Factor will multiply your results 2, 3, 5 up to ten times or more if you start doing it.

First lets take away your excuses. I were never born to become successful. Yes you were!! What is the difference between you getting born and someone who become successful got born? The answer is nothing! NOTHING!?!?!? that is not true the world is not that fair. Yes, you were born with the same possibilities as someone who are successful it is YOU that were responsible for becoming and being where you are right now.

Stop being so unfair to me! I am not unfair that is the truth.

Well you might say there are so many variables to balance it is so hard.

Lets take a look at them:

Health
Relationships
Money
Business/JOB

Here you have the for reasons why you are not successful. No, it is not that easy to blame everything around you. You and only you were born to Greatness.

You are 100% responsible for your choices and for the people around you.

Your NETWORTH in any of the four places is worth your

SELFWORTH. It is that simple!

No matter what happens in your life it is your own responsibility. What happens to you are a cause of your own Actions.

If you want to have more in life you have to become more. For your circumstances to change you need to change your inputs. Who are you listening to every day?

If you start a race in your life your life will RACE with you.

Lets take a look at some of the attributes you need to have in life to become a successful person in any part of life.

Integrity, Confidence, Caring, Visonary, Disiplin, Hard Working, Goal Getter, Humble, Perceverence, Passion, Character, Persistant and knowlageable.

10 of these are Attitudes. What do you think is most improtant?

ATTITUDE!!!

The Greatest of all attitudes is Passion!

Have you ever met a passionate person? They usually lights up the room when the come in and people get attracted to their ATTITUDE.

How Do I inite my own Passion?

What are the reasons why you are doing what you are doing?

What is the Meaning and perpose of your goal(dream)?

This is some very important questions you should ask yourself.

Lets take a quick look at how attitudes shapes our lifes:

Lets take a quick look at what you are currently inputing into your life?

Would you drink this water???

Or would you rather drink this Glass of water.

Think about it. It is pretty obvious isn`t it?

How much TV do you watch in a day? You love the News? Have you seen a lot of positive news lately? I have`nt. Thats also because I don`t watch TV :) But when we watch the news it is mostly Death, Tragedy, War and Illness.

It is like poring down the glass of dirty water. Do you want to do that? Or would you rather consider drinking fresh clear water? You are shaping your life by what you are putting into it.

Would you now rather read a great personal development book or a CD or a DVD rather that watch the news??

You might have been drinking the dirty water for a long time and say there is no way that I can get rid of that water. Well, Do an experiment at home. Fill a glass with Dirty water, then you start filling it with fresh clear water. Do this for a while. Does the dirty water get clearer? YES.

It is the same way with your mind. Start filling your mind with great things dont dump garbage into it.

There are 2 Ways to manage your mind:

Protect:

Input - Go on a low information diet. Pour a little clear water everyday into your dirty glass of water. Stop Watching TV and read newspapers.

Envirenoment - Who push you in the right direction that you want to go. Who is pulling you down and dragging you away from where you want to be?
People - Your 5 closest friends and the people you hang with are mostly a mirror of yourself.

Feed:

For evry $1 you put into personal development you get around $20 dollars on the bottomline.
Your personal development is you!
Remember that most people are not mentally or emotionally prepared to become successful in life.
There are over 5000 books on personal development every year. You have to be the one to lead and go through them and find the best one for you and the people you want to help around you.

The 3 Greatest Secrets to Super Achievement:

The 3 CORE components are:

1. Learn to LOVE failure. Someone said, "the Key to success is massive failure".

Start Purshue failure on daily bases. The more you fail at what you do the better you become at it and the more successful you become. Dear to start to swing the pendulum. If you never swing it you will never experiens either of the sides and be comfortable. But to succeed in anything you must start swinging and doing something or else you will continue stay were you currently are.

2. Consistency. Wins every time!

Start doing something every day towards reaching your goal.

Lets imagine you have a waterwell with a waterpump attached to it. If you pump once you will not get any water. Some people would stop there! Why? No water = No result?

Well if you ever have tried to use a old pump like that you should know that it takes more than one pump of the handle to get water out of it. If you start from scratch you might have to pump several hundered times. Suddenly it starts to drip water out of the pump. Is that all??? I quit!!

Well that is what the most of the remaining people would do. If I got water starting to drip I would get pretty excited if I were thirsty :) I would pump more and more until the water starts pouring out. I finally did it you say and you stop. Well then the water stops running. There we lose the rest. Now only 1% have the courage to pump a little now and then to be able to make the water continue flushing out of the pump. Now when you made it you might have to pump the handle every now and then to have a continous stream of water. The last 1% that made it this far are so excited and the continue pump a little every now and then forever.

Dedicate yourself first to one year with consistency. If you make it through 1 year there will not be very hard to continue with consistency for 2, 3, 5, 10, 25, 50 years.

Consistency will be the second step towards becoming a super achiever.

3. Success is a simple formula:

Decide what you want?
Learn the formula. Dozen fundamentals that we talked about earlier. The attitudes.
Figure out what skills you need: Books, Tools, Magazines and Seminars.
Practise, Practise, Practise, Practise.................................................
Mastry. Have Patience! Mastery will take you around aprox. 10.000 hours with dedication. Or. around 7 years.

What are you kidding me???????? I don`t want to spend that much time on something!!

Well you are now aware of what super achievers do! If you want to become successful you have to follow what Darren Hardy have tought me. It is that simple.

Now you have the formula for why you are not successful yet. Take action and you will become successful.

When people ask me if are you sure you want to do that. Isn`t that a little to much to swallow?

Think about it as climbing a mountain. Those who climb Mount Everest do you think they had people tell them they were crazy? Yes of course there were people saying things like: Can`t you climb a smaller mountain one that isnt that high? Can`t you instead climb a mountain that you would be able to reach the top without problems??? Then I have something to tell those people! : I Will climb that mountain whatever it takes. Either you will see me wave from the top or find me dead reaching the top!!!!

That is the statement of a coming Champion! Become one and give everything you have the possibility to become!!

That is what I have to say about how to become successful. Hope you take the advantage as I am taking in whatever goal or business you want to Master.

For a great worksheet book to read go to!!:

http://www.success.com/bestyearever

Get the insight of What Darren Hardy teach and become a Master!!

I will do whatever it takes to help you if you have questions and I am going to do whatever it takes to reach My BHAG!! Will you reach your BHAG!?!?