How to be a great communicator?

Hi everyone,

It has been a while since I wrote on my BLOG. A lot of stuff happening lately. Easter with family, my wife and friends. A lot of fun having my beautiful wife home:) Truly enjoyable.

It is another gorgeous day in Winnipeg, MB. Hot and sunny the spring has definately arrived. Can`t wait to go golfing!!

Today I thought I should drop into the Law of Connection.

What is the Law of Connection? The Law of Connection states that when two people are in rapport they will have better connection. from Michael Losiers book The Law of Connection.

The law of connection is simply when you have good rapport with people you have a better connection, when you have bad report with someone your connection are worse.

People are separated into 4 different Communication styles: Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic and Digital.

Visual Style:

• See things in pictures
• Memorize by creating visual pictures in their mind
• Learn Quickly
• Get bored easily when they have no plans
• Value time, so they like things to start and end punctually
• Prefer getting "The Big Picture" rather than the details

If you are a visual communicator you use this words often:

Focus, Imagine, Look, See, Show, Visualize, Illustrate, Clear/clearly, Clarify, Picture, Bright, Appear, Dull/hazy, View/scan and Enlighten.

If this words are very familiar to you. You are a Visual communicator.

Auditory Style:

• Remember what they hear - Word for Word
• Learn by listening and often don`t take notes
• Are good story tellers
• Talk to themselves when working or consentrating (You can often hear them making sounds like ahh, hmmmm, oooh and ummmm)

If you are a auditory communicator you use this words often:

Resonate, Harmony, Repeat, Tune In, Buzz, Discuss, Ringing, Listen, Sound, Noisy, Whisper, Tune, Hear/heard, Say, Babble, Clicking, Quiet and Earshot.

Kinesthetic Style:

• Often speak slowly
• Learn best through doing
• Need time to "feel their way" through new information
• May say that they "feel" something is either right or wrong when asked to make decision
• Have a tendency to take time to take time to "settle into" a new environment or situation or to nest

If you are a kinesthetic communicator you use this words often:

Feel, Firm, Together, Relationship, Touch, Connect, Press, Catch, Hard, Complete, Fun, Soft, Play, Numb, Stumble, Fit, Strike, Comfortable and Grasp/Handle.

Digital Style:

• Memorize by steps and sequences
• Process information in a methodical, rational and logical way
• Are very detail oriented
• Have a strong need to make sense of the world around them
• Learn by working things out in their mind
• Need time to process new information

If you are a digital communicator you use this words often:

Perceive, Consider, Detail, Know, Describe, Figure Out, Process, Logical, Conceive, Change, Sequence, First/Last, Think, Thought, Rational, Decide and Understand.

That is a quick overview over the different styles we humans use to communicate with each other.

Now you have something to look for when you communicate with others and you probably have found out witch way you communicate. I love to use the law of connection. It is fun and you get a better connection with your friends, family, business partners, customers, students and co-workers.

I will come back to you all with deeper view into how to build report with all the people you surround yourself with. But now you know why you feel or dislike someone that you have met. It is because you have different communication styles.

It is going to be fun to go through the trip to become the master of The Law of Connection.

Have a great day everyone,

John Thore Stub Sneisen

Be at your very best EVERYDAY

Video of the day!!

Love your life!!! Always!!!!!!!!!!

Is your Family important?

Hi Everyone,

What does your family mean too you? Is your family everything for you? Your family is your family, but sometimes if you want more than your family`s comfort zone allows you what can you do.

Sometimes enteprenurial people meet hard resistance when it comes to their choice of direction in their life and their families current place in life.

What can you do when your family tells you something you are thinking about is stupid, out of your league, not for you, you will never do that, you should become that instead and if you do that you are not a part of our family.

The last one is probably a little harsh, but it happens for some kids, spouses and other relatives out there that get their dream crushed by the energy vampires and dream stealer`s out there.

To get a NO from your family is not because they hate you for doing that or that they think you are stupid. Some people especially your friends will be afraid that if you do that they can loose you as a friend. That is definitely not the truth. You don`t have to loose your friends, but don`t let their security issues scare you from going further in life than you thought were possible.

You have to understand that everything is possible. You can do what ever you want in life. If you have found your true passion and want to chase it and become really great doing it GO FOR IT. Don`t let other people`s thought patterns kill your own. Even if it is the people you care the most about that is family and friends.

Family is family still love them even if it hurts that they are afraid of loosing you. It wont happen. You were born into your family. They are always a part of you. Love your family!

Have a great day all,

John Thore Stub Sneisen

Be at your very best EVERYDAY

Examples of Dream Boards

Hi Everyone,

Here is a couple of examples of what kind of Dream Boards that I have made.

This is a List version me and my wife made. Top 100 places we want to travel and a couple of our goals.

This was my first Dream Board I Made 3 years ago. Me and my wife is now in the making of a new Dream Board for both of us.

This is our current Dream Board that are being made. We combine both Text and Pictures that mean a lot for our goal/dream.

If you have any questions about making a vision board komment :)

Have a awesome day,

John Thore Stub Sneisen

Be at your very best EVERYDAY

Video of the day!!

Take a look at this online Vision board tool.

You can find out more on: http://www.visualizeyourgoals.com

Enjoy taking a look at it. I will show you some picture of what Me and My Wife have made.

Make your Dream board!

Hi Everyone,

I am now back from a great trip out to Kenora in Onatario.

We went on a great hike in some tremendous nature. WOW. You should get more out in the nature it is so energizing!!

Today I wanted to talk about how to create your own simple dream board very fast.

A dream board will be full of pictures, quotes, numbers and words that are motivating for you.

A good example of this would be a list of Places you want to travel with pictures from the different places. Make sure that you truly desire to go there. For example. I would love to try to travel the world maybe to China. Heeeeey don`t be tentative. I really really truly want to go and walk on the Great Wall of China and feel the wind in my hear enjoying the sights from on top of it.

You have to have something there that by just looking at it you want to wake up and do what you must do that day and other days until you are able to go there.

On me and my wifes dream board we have both individual and goals we want to achieve together. You can make a dream board for your family, friend, you, businesses on your own job. It is so many ways you can use a dream board. You just have to choose if you want to do one yourself or one together with someone else. If you have a spouse I suggest that both of you should be involved in making a dream board together. Why, because you involve each other in your life`s, you have a greater chance reaching your goals if you set them together or having your spouse help you with it. It is a team sport to achieve dreams and goals. We need to work together as a team because the more people we share and are working together to go towards a targeted goal the bigger the chance to reach it and reach it faster.

I think personally that a Dream Board is a must make and have for all of us that really want to achieve ultimate goals and dreams.

Lets start a global Dream Board awareness.

Hope you enjoyed my insights on reaching your goals,

John Thore Stub Sneisen

Video of the day!!

Hi all,

Here is the teach of the day. He is my mentor. He have a true passion for personal development and will never stop doing it.

Enjoy the energy that he is sharing!!