Why is it important to know which way you communicate with others?

Today the rain is pouring down, but I woke up today knowing no matter what this day will make another great chapter in the life of myself! :)

So lets talk a little about the why to start understanding how others might communicate different from you. For around a month ago I talked about the Law of Connection and how we as people have 4 different ways of communicating with each other.

There are:

• Visual

• Auditory

• Kinesthetic

• Digital

Communicating people out there.

Once we recognize how our own communication style you will understand why you state things or ask questions in a particular way.

Understanding how other people`s styles work and how they receive and communicate the way they do.

Having that information will allow you to be more flexible and calibrate(communicate their way) your communication style so that you create rapport(that they like to communicate with you better) and improve your connections with all the different styles of communicater`s.

By getting to know the four styles of communicating you will be able to build rapport with all people you meet no matter how they communicate.

Having this information will let you be able to help yourself in a lot of differet areas of life and all professions or businesses you might run.

Here are some great areas to use this information:

• That your style of communication is different from your partner or spouse.

• A mother of four children might find that all four of them have different ways of communicate.

• Your friends might have different ways of communicate that might fit your way or not.

• A manager, supervisor or leader will usually have employees and co-workers with all styles.

• A Teacher usually have all the different communication styles in his or hers classes.

• Sales people will also have clients and customers with all four different styles.

So here you have a little info on why you are thinking differently than other people and sometimes might get frustrated with others because they are not like you in the way they communicate.

So it is time to start looking more into the way we are as communicators and how we can calibrate our self to make other people understand us better.

Have a wonderful day and remember to do and live it as it were your last day on earth,

John Thore Stub Sneisen